The role of forgiveness in the reconciliation

a qualitative analysis of the repercussions in the remarriage with the ex-spouse

Abstract

The present study, part of a larger investigation on remarriage with the ex-spouse, aims to investigate the forgiveness role in the marital relationship reconstruction in the marriage with the ex-spouse. A qualitative study was carried out, in which 12 independent subjects, from Rio de Janeiro’s middle classes population, were interviewed -heterosexuals, married to the ex-spouse, with children in common. For the results analysis, the content analysis method was used, in its categorical aspect, and the category of repentance and forgiveness and its two subcategories –forgiving is necessary and repenting makes a difference-were discussed. Findings indicate that forgiveness is fundamental to reconciliation with the ex-spouse, because it opens room to justify and relieve offenses, thus being a precursor to emotional well-being.